11 Most Realistic Strap On Dildos For A Real Feel
Whether you’re new to the world of pegging or just want a more realistic dildo, you can’t go wrong with a realistic strap-on! Sold as both stand-alone dildos and complete pegging sets, these toys look nearly identical to a real penis. This is my ranking of the 11 Best and Most Realistic Strap On Dildos. Interested in the best overall strap-on toys, check that link instead.
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Vixen Vixskin Johnny | Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On | Au Naturel | Colours Pleasures | King Cock | Vixen Colossus | Vixen Vixskin Mustang | Lifelike Lover Luxe Strapless Strap-On | King Cock Uncut | Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap-On Dildo | King Cock Swinging Balls |
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How We Test realistic strap ons
We’re a team of 262 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best realistic strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 45 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre realistic strap ons didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 721 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.How to Pick the Ideal Realistic Strap On
There are a couple of things to consider when looking for the best realistic dildo. Firstly, you’ll want to consider your preferred length and girth of the strap-on in question: Do you want something ungodly massive, average, or short? You should always opt for a non-porous material if possible. You’ll also have a variety of designs and textures to choose from, as well as the option to opt for a suction-cup base. Lastly, compare prices! Just because a product is cheaper doesn’t necessarily mean it’s worse!
Test Winner Vixen Vixskin Johnny
The Vixen Vixskin Johnny is a dual density dildo designed to fill you up while feeling just like the real thing.
Measuring up at 7 insertable inches with a 1.83 inch diameter, this realistic strap on dildo is approachable but still provides quite the stretch.
After sliding in the bulging, spongey head, riding this dildo is smooth sailing. That is if smooth sailing means a slightly curved and deliciously veiny shaft with ridged foreskin.
The girthy dildo also has soft and squishy textured balls that add to the fantasy while helping to keep Johnny safely attached to the harness of your choice.
Pros
- ✅ Realistic look and dual-density texture
- ✅ Availsble in multiple skin tones
- ✅ Suitable for anal use
- ✅ Premium quality silicone
- ✅ Easy to clean and sterilize
Cons
- ❌ Quite expensive
- ❌ No suction cup
Why I Chose It
I’ve picked out the Vixen Vixskin Johnny as the Test Winner for a reason. With its lifelike dual-density feel, precisely textured design, and fulfilling size, it is an amazing toy for some partnered play as a super realistic strap-on or to enjoy solo!
This realistic strap on dildo may not be for beginners or for anyone who isn’t a fan of dildos that are on the girthier side. It’s also not ideal for anyone who finds themselves needing a suction cup base to enjoy a solo ride.
However, with its anal-safe and easy-to-clean material, the Johnny Vixskin is perfect for pegging and for whenever you need a toy that feels like the real deal.
At the higher end of our price scale compared to other realistic dildos, the Johnny is definitely an investment. But if you ask any of our tester who have tried out a Vixskin dildo for themselves, they would say it’s a very worthy investment!
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Runner Up Lovehoney Deluxe Realistic Strap-On Harness Kit
The Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit is the cheapest real life strap on in the market. This set comes with a strap on kit with 2 silicone dildos with flared suction cup bases, a fully adjustable harness with leg straps and 3 O-rings to mix and match the dildos.
The smaller dildo that comes with this real life strap on is great for beginners in sex toys while the larger one is super fulfilling and is lengthy and girthy enough for deep penetrative thrusts. The harness in the Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit is fully adjustable and would fit up to a 67-inch waist.
With its strong suction cup, it’s algo great for hands-free play.
Pros
- ✅ Cheapest real feeling strap on
- ✅ Great for couples foreplay.
- ✅ Strong suction cup
- ✅ Harness is comfortable
- ✅ Dildos are super soft
Cons
- ❌ Smaller dildo is too small
- ❌ Larger dildo has a pointy tip
- ❌ Pointy tip uncomfortable for penetration
Why I Chose It
Ideal for beginners and advanced users, the Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit is the cheapest real life strap on in the market. With a harness that is fully adjustable and dildos in two sizes to fit the desieres of beginners and advanced users and a strong suction cup, the Lovehoney Deluxe Strap-On Harness Kit is a real feeling strap on to enjoy alone and during foreplay with your partner.
Previous buyers have praised the super soft dildos and comfortable harness but they have also mentioned that the smaller dildo is really small and that the larger one has a pointy tip that can be painful during deep penetrative sex.
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Cheapest Au Naturel Sensa Feel Dildo
Average-sized, velvet soft, and slightly squishy, the Au Naturel Sensa Feel is our winner for the cheapest realistic strap on dildo. The firm and moldable shaft can be posed to perfectly hit your body’s sweet spot and the anal-safe material opens up limitless opportunities.
Whether you want to peg your partner or go on a hands free ride, the cost and quality makes the Au Naturel a great start.
Plus, slight veins and a bendy crown make for a real-feeling experience whether strapped on or perfectly posed!
Pros
- ✅ Low cost
- ✅ Posable shaft for customization
- ✅ Suction base for hands-free
- ✅ Looking for something beginner-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
- ❌ Smaller size
Why I Chose It
If you want a flexible and beginner-friendly dildo then the Au Naturel Sensa Feel Dildo is for you. This budget-friendly toy is made from a body-safe, soft plastic and boasts dual-density firmness for a stiff shaft and realistic give on the outside.
At 5 inches of insertable length and at the low end of our price range, the Au Naturel is a fantastic start to the world of realistic strap on and suction cup dildos. Some may find the Au Naturel too squishy or small for their taste or may prefer a non-porous material.
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Beginners Colours Pleasures 5 inch Dildo
Bold and adorable, this small and thick-veined dildo is perfect for beginners. The Colours Pleasures 4 inch is an incredible choice to ease yourself into the world of real feeling dildos without taking the plunge on an uncomfortable size.
Compatible with a harness, waterproof, equipped with a suction base, and anal-safe, this bright little toy can go just about anywhere. It’s especially suited for beginners who don’t love the hyper-realistic look of skin tone toys but love a real feel and thick, ridged veins.
Single density silicone means that this dainty dildo is firm yet flexible and incredibly easy to care for.
Pros
- ✅ Flexible and firm
- ✅ Thick veins for a realistic sensation
- ✅ Average sized girth
- ✅ Realistic-looking shape
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Harness-compatible
Cons
- ❌ May be too small for some
- ❌ Non-vibrating
- ❌ Quite firm
Why I Chose It
The Colours Pleasure 5-inch Dildo is versatile and easy to handle. With a myriad of fun colors to choose from while still achieving a realistic feel, it’s no wonder that it has been voted best for beginners.
This dildo is a fantastic choice for a first toy no matter how you plan to use it. Its size is perfect for easing into any kind of penetration, whether suctioned or strapped on, while not sacrificing a pleasurable ridged sensation.
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Thick King Cock Ultra Realistic Girthy Dildo
Looking to level up? Almost as thick as a soda can, the hyper-realistic King Cock is not for the faint of heart. This giant, veined shaft measures up at 8.5 insertable inches and is designed to deliver the fullest sensations.
Take King Cock with you in the shower, for a solo ride or for some intense partnered play. At over 2 inches wide it comes in at the top of our list for the best thick and realistic strap on dildo. Its extra-girthy and textured yet flexible feel makes for comfortable penetration both vaginally and anally. Once you work up to its size, of course.
Pros
- ✅ Extra-Girthy
- ✅ Incredibly realistic
- ✅ Suction cup
Cons
- ❌ No balls
- ❌ Not guaranteed fragrance-free
- ❌ Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
Why I Chose It
This incredibly thick and super-realistic toy is definitely not for beginners, but perfect for anyone who wants that extra girth. Level up your strap on game, anal play, or suctioned self-pleasure with the King Cock Ultra Realistic Girthy Dildo.
The PVC material is firm and flexible. Though some may prefer non-porous silicone or dual-density for their real-feeling fantasies.
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Penis Sleeve Vixen Colossus Realistic Silicone Penis Sleeve
The Vixen VixSkin Colossus Silicone Penis Extender is a real life strap on that people with a penis can use over their penis for a larger and girthier shaft. This real life strap on sleeve is hollow and can be placed over an erectile or flacid penis and it is adjusted around the balls for a comfortable and secure use during deep intense sex.
Whether you have erectile disfunction, have a small penis or simply want a break from your regular real life strap on, you’ll find the Vixen VixSkin Colossus Silicone Penis Extender is super satisfying not only for your partner but also for you!
The Vixen VixSkin Colossus Silicone Penis Extender is made from ultra realistic silicone with ridges and veins that make it feel and look like the real thing. Inside, it’s also super comfortable for the wearer as it’s got a texture to pleasure the wearer too.
It’s ideal for couples that want to take their sexual play to the next level.
Pros
- ✅ Very realistic real life strap on
- ✅ Helps pounding while the penis recovers
- ✅ Soft and comfortable to use
- ✅ Ideal for couples play
Cons
- ❌ Designed for smaller men
- ❌ It feels like plastic for some partners
- ❌ Too expensive
- ❌ Too big for some women
- ❌ Ball strap breaks easily
Why I Chose It
The Vixen VixSkin Colossus Silicone Penis Extender is a real life strap on sleeve that people with a penis can use to enjoy a girthier and larger shaft and enjoy penetrative sex for longer even if their penis is still recovering.
The shaft of this real feeling strap on is artistically crafted with veins and ridges and it is made of soft silicone. However, some women have complaint that it feels like plastic when it is inside them.
Despite the Vixen VixSkin Colossus Silicone Penis Extender is allegedly designed for average-sized men, some have complained that it is too small and uncomfortabe to wear for a long time. Others have mentioned that the strap that goes around the balls may break easily.
This real feeling strap on can be a bit pricey for what it offers.
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Premium Vixen Vixskin Mustang
The Vixen Mustang Vixskin Dildo is here to bring your real-feel fantasies to life. Streamlined for insertion at 1.5 inches of diameter with a soft, dual-density outside and convincingly textured shaft this dildo is a dream for anyone who wants an accurate feel and size.
The Vixen Mustang even comes in a variety of skin tones or some bright and tie-diecolors for any preferred look.
Especially suitable for anal play, the squishy Vixen Mustang is curved for a fantastic g-spot or p-spot orgasm either by yourself using its suction cup or as a realistic strap on with a partner.
Made with Vixen’s featured Vixskin dual-density silicone, this dildo is as convincing as they get and even able to be heated to room temperature using water.
Pros
- ✅ Extremely Realistic feel
- ✅ Thinner with an average length
- ✅ Suction cup and harness compatible
- ✅ Textured with thick veins
Cons
- ❌ Not for those who need more girth
- ❌ Lacking balls
- ❌ Some reviews state weak suction
Why I Chose It
Squishy with a firm shaft and a variety of either skin tone or boldly fun colors, the Vixen Mustang Vixskin Dildo is a fantastic choice.
The textured shaft, as well as the length and diameter, lends to that realistic sensation while the body-safe, non-porous material and suction cup mean that this toy can be used anywhere, anyhow you’d like.
This toy is a tad pricey and some reviews state that the suction cup is not very strong, but overall is a fantastic choice for any type of use.
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Strapless Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable Strapless Strap-On
If you’ve ever wanted to enjoy strap on play without a harness, the Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable Strapless Strap-On is the real life strap on you may want to consider. It is made of super soft velvety silicone, so it feels fantastic for both partners.
The Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable Strapless Strap-On is designed to impress: its venous shaft, ridges and large rounded head resemble the real thing and make your sexual experience much more exciting.
It is a real life strap on that is flexible enough to allow you reach the right angle of your partner’s vagina. It can also be used anally for backdoor shared excitement and to let her penetrate you.
Pros
- ✅ Strapless real life strap on
- ✅ Velvety silicone feels great
- ✅ Exciting realistic look
- ✅ Vaginal friendly
- ✅ Anal friendly
Cons
- ❌ It slips out easily
- ❌ IRidge on the head can be painful
- ❌ Too flexible
- ❌ Not girthy enough
- ❌ Limited color choice
Why I Chose It
The Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable Strapless Strap-On is a strapless real life strap on that features an artfully crafted shaft with ridges, veins and a large bulbous head for sensual and intense internal massages. This real feeling strap on can be enjoyed both vaginally and anally and has a super pleasant look and feel.
It’s designed to make couples play funnier and more exciting. However, previous buyers have disliked that it is too flexible and therefore makes it difficult to stimulate the right and desired angle. Besides, some women have said that the ridge in the head can be painful during penetration. Other negative feature is that it slides easily, it comes in a limited colour choice and it’s not girthy enough.
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Un-circumsized King Cock Uncut Dildo
Always fantasized about an uncut cock but never able to find one in the wild?
King Cock has you covered. Tease back the foreskin to reveal an ultra-realistic head on this incredibly unique uncut dildo.
The sliding foreskin requires a little extra lubrication and cleaning, but if you want an experience like never before then there’s nothing better than this suction-cup equipped, uncircumcised, realistic strap on dildo.
Complete with thick veins and an average but satisfying size, the King Cock uncut is an unforgettable experience.
Pros
- ✅ Unique uncircumcised sliding foreskin
- ✅ Incredibly real looking
- ✅ Powerful suction cup
- ✅ Thick veins for a real feel
Cons
- ❌ Takes extra cleaning steps
- ❌ Requires extra lubrication for sliding foreskin
- ❌ Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
Why I Chose It
Though it takes a few steps, being able to tease back the King Cock’s foreskin and feeling a slight slide during insertion is an amazingly unique experience. Added veins complete the fantasy, though some may prefer a toy with added testicles.
While the size and width are beginner-friendly, the extra cleaning and lubrication steps put this toy at the intermediate level.
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Hollow Fetish Fantasy Unisex Hollow Strap-On Dildo
The Fetish Fantasy Unisex Hollow Strap-On Dildo is a real feel strap on that looks as the real thing. Every vein and ridge in the shaft as well as the head is designed for pleasure and excitement. It’s a hollow removable strap-on dildo with lightly padded faux leather harness for strap on play.
Since it’s hollow, the Fetish Fantasy Unisex Hollow Strap-On Dildo is totally unisex, meaning that couples that have a female partner can enjoy this real feeling strap on as well. In fact, it’s quite a versatile sex toy: the adjustable harness and large removable hollow dildo means that men can use it as a penis extender while women can wear it for an exciting session of pegging play.
The harness fits snuggly and comfortably around the waist for extended use.
Pros
- ✅ Hollow unisex real life strap on
- ✅ Awesome realistic look
- ✅ Girthy
- ✅ Super comfortable harness
- ✅ Easy to put on
Cons
- ❌ Dildo uncomfortable for vaginal sex
- ❌ Shaft is too big
- ❌ Limited positions due to bend in dildo
- ❌ It can be a bit tight in the inside
- ❌ The shaft is a bit hard
Why I Chose It
The Fetish Fantasy Unisex Hollow Strap-On Dildo is a unisex real feeling strap on that couples interested in strap on play can add to their collection of sex toys.
The harness of this real feel strap on fits snuggly and comfortable around the waist and stays in place during the whole sexual experience. The dildo looks realistic and it’s large and girthy; however, some users have complaint that it is too big and that it can be hurtful during vaginal intercourse.
Despite the shaft is girthy, its internal diameter is quite small, and if may feel uncomfortable or be difficult to insert if your penis is not really small.
King Cock Dildo With Swinging Balls
The King Cock Swinging Balls Dildo is for anyone who doesn’t just want the token balls at the end of a dildo. The ones that are only there for gripping or to hold your dildo into a harness.
Oh no. This 1.7-inch diameter shaft ends with two large, heavy, flexible balls that are designed to slap against whomever it is being used on.
Complete with veins and a triple-density material, the attached testicles are designed to drive home the realistic strap on fantasy. Or, of course, go for a solo ride with its intense suction cup.
Pros
- ✅ Extremely realistic
- ✅ Flexible, swinging balls
- ✅ Triple-density material
- ✅ Lifelike head and veins
Cons
- ❌ Porous and non-compatible with lubricated condoms
- ❌ Balls may be too firm for some
Why I Chose It
The King Cock Swinging Balls Dildo is designed for those who feel that most hyper-real dildos are missing one very important aspect. Realistic balls.
Hanging low, reviews state that even when firmly strapped to a harness the testicles are still able to do the trick.
The triple-density and vein-covered shaft promise a convincing ride or pegging session for intermediate levels that have experimented with girthier dildos.
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Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner Up | Cheapest | Beginners | Thick | Penis Sleeve | Premium | Strapless | Un-circumsized | Hollow | null |
Overall score | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.8 / 5.0 from 25 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 36 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 13 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 310 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 108 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 89 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 51 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 6 users | 4 / 5.0 from 44 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 4 users |
Price | Pricey | Cheap | Cheap | Cheap | Affordable | Premium | Pricey | Affordable | Affordable | Moderate | Moderate |
Design | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 96 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 99 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 86 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 87 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 99 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 96 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 87 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Length | 8 inches | 8 inches | 7 inches | 7 inches | 9 inches | 9 inches | - | 9 inches | - | 10.5 inches | - |
Insertable length | 7 inches | 8 inches | 5.5 inches | 5.25 inches | 8.5 inches | (Inner Canal) 5.5 inches | 6.5 inches | 6 inches | 6 inches | 6 inches | 6 inches |
Diameter | 1.8 inches | 1.9 inches | - | 1.5 inches | 2.2 inches | - | 1.6 inches | 1.43 inches | 1.5 inches | 2.28 inches | 1.7 inches |
Materials | Silicone | Silicone | TPE | Body-safe silicone | PVC | Silicone | Silicone | Silicones | PVC | Soft Plastic | PVC |
Waterproof | Submersible | Submersible | Submersible | Yes | Submersible | - | Submersible | - | Submersible | Submersible | Submersible |
Flexibility | Flexible | Firm | - | Firm | - | Very flexible except for the head | - | Flexible | - | Flexible | - |
Harness Size | - | 67 inches | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | 50 inches | - |
Allergies | - | Latex-Free, Phthalate-Free | - | - | - | - | - | Phthalate-Free, Latex-Free | - | Phthalate-Free, Contains Latex | - |
Width | - | - | 1.75 inches | - | - | 2.06 inches | - | - | - | - | - |
Storage Bag Included | - | - | - | No | - | No | - | - | - | - | - |
Colors Available | - | - | - | Pink, Purple, Blue, Black, Rainbow, 3 Skin Tones | - | Chocolate, Caramel, Vanilla, and Turquoise | - | - | - | - | - |
Diameter (internal) | - | - | - | - | - | (Inner Canal) 1.4 inches | - | - | - | 1.25 inches | - |
Choose Your Harness
For sublime strap on sensations, you’ll need a harness. These three from LoveHoney are fantastic, sturdy choices that take your comfort level into account. Important to consider when choosing is whether you would like to be fully clothed, scantily clad, or completely naked during use. Don’t forget to account for the measurements of your dildo when choosing a harness.
Love Honey Full-Back Harness
This classic black-and-metal harness is versatile for both you and your chosen toy. With straps that can adjust anywhere from 23 to 68 inches and 3 separate O rings as well as a full back for added support, this harness can see you through just about anything.
Spareparts Unisex Joque Strap Harness
This comfortable, unisex harness is designed to lay smoothly against the skin. Its built-in O ring can stretch to contain 1.25 to 2-inch dildos and the waist strap can adjust from 20 inches to 50 inches. Made for comfort, this harness is on the pricey end of the scale but is comfortable, flexible, easy to wear, and worth every extra penny.
Lovehoney Unisex Harness Briefs
The Lovehoney Unisex Harness Briefs are made for comfort and convenience, with no obvious harness lines these unisex briefs can be worn all day for endless fun. Whether you are looking for spur-of-the-moment fun, packing, or an easy setup this harness is comfy and on the low end of our price range. The built-in O ring is only compatible with dildos that have a 1.5-inch diameter.
Try These Strap-On-Friendly Real Feel Dildos
If you haven’t had enough with the real feel strap ons we have profesionally reviewed so far, we have listed some others you may want to consider.
Lovehoney Dual Density Silicone Dildo with Balls 6 Inch
The Lovehoney Dual Density Silicone Dildo with Balls 6 Inch is a real feel strap on that you can’t but fall in love with. It’s made of supple silicone and features a firm inner core, textured balls, a bulbous head and a textured shaft for a realistic look and feel.
It makes vaginal and anal penetration super exciting and it gives deep intense internal stimulation. Thanks to its flared base and super strong suction cup, the Lovehoney Dual Density Silicone Dildo with Balls 6 Inch is compatible with most harnesses for strap on play and hands-free play.
Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 6.5 Inch
Those interested in realistic pleasure should look no further than the Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 6.5 Inch. This real feel strap on dildo boasts one of the most lifelike dildo designs in the market. The firm inner core is coated in a super soft skin that looks just like a real penis.
The curved shaft of the Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 6.5 Inch makes it both anal and vaginal friendly for exciting sexual experiences. It also comes with a strong suction cup for hands-free play and it’s compatible with most harnesses for strap-on play as long as you have an O-ring with a 1.5″ diameter.
Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo 8 Inch
The Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo 8 Inch is a realistic dildo for fulfilling sexual play. With its textured curved shaft, raised veins and bulbous head, this real life strap on dildo gives exciting internal massages and aims right at the G-spot.
This versatile sex toy can be used during hands-free play thanks to its suction cup and it is also ideal for pegging and strap-on play as it is harness compatible.
What to Look for in a Realistic Strap On Dildo
Searching for a realistic strap on dildo is not quite as straightforward as it may seem. Look below for a checklist of which aspects you’re really looking for.
Balls or No Balls
While some need attached balls to complete the fantasy, others may only care about the shaft. If balls are a must, do they just need to be there to complete the look or do they need to move like the real thing?
The Look to Match the Feel
While inside you may want a convincing texture and thick veins, but do you want your toy to look real as well? Most realistic strap on dildos come in a couple different skin tones, but not everyone is a fan of a too-convincing toy. Bold colors can help to separate the look from the feel.
Sizing
Whether a beginner or an expert, sizing can be tricky. One toy may be absolutely perfect for a solo suction-cup ride but when strapped onto another person it could be too much or not enough. Even if you find yourself with a toy a little girthier than expected, go slow, use lube, and don’t be afraid to shelve the toy to use after a little bit of practice.
Materials
Silicone? PVC? TPE? Dual Density? Triple Density? These can all be extremely confusing to sort through. Non-porous and non-toxic materials are what we recommend as the best and safest material. Porous toys are less easy to sterilize and can very quickly harbor bacteria, germs, or even grow mold. It’s important to replace your porous toys at the first signs of damage. For feel, it can be difficult to truly know what you prefer unless you have tried it. Find what is in your price range and which type of material you feel most comfortable caring for, then give it a whirl!
Different types of real feel strap on
- O-ring- a strap on can attach to an O-ring in a harness or strap on underwear, but the strap on must have a flared base, suction cup, or balls to be secured; O-rings can come in different sizes or can be stretchable to accomodate different sized dildos
- Vac-U-Lock- this attachment is great for larger strap ons; the strap on will have hollow, ridged center which attaches to a Vac-U-Lock system on the harness
- Hollow- a strap on with a hollow center; these are great for putting bullet vibes inside, or if the centre is large enough, a penis
- Strapless strap on- made to be worn by people with vaginas; a curved strap on for G-spot stimulation, one end of the strapless strap on on is inserted into the wearer and the other can be used to penetrate their parnter- great for double pleasure
- Vibrating- a vibrating strap on can have a motor inside that is controlled by buttons or a remote; can also be made to vibrate by adding a bullet vibrator to a hollow center
Does a Strap-On Feel Better than the Real Thing?
If you haven’t tried real feel strap ons in the past and you’ve carefully studied the sex toys we’ve reviewed so far, you may ask yourself if they are really worthy. In other words, is sex better with a strap on or with the real thing?
We have made our research and this is what we can tell you:
It's All About Experiences
With all of us being different from each other, it’s difficult to say if strap-on sex is better than sex with a real penis.
It will all depend on the mood we are in, who we are with, if we want G-spot stimulation or not, and how playful or open to introduce sex toys to your sexual life you are in that precise moment.
In other words, what feels great tonight, may not feel that good tomorrow and what you discarded tonight may be a great idea in the near future.
It's not (Always) About Real Feel Strap On vs A Penis
Sex with a real feel strap on shouldn’t always be seen in opposition to sex with a real penis.
In fact, not all real feel strap ons come with realistic dildos.
Feel Rebellious with a Strap On
There’s something forbidden, kinky and naughty about sex toys in general and real feel strap ons are not the exception to the rule.
Adding a strap on to your sex life can help you reveal a more rebellious, kinky or naughty side of you and, therefore, help you reach a better sexual experience.
Strap Ons and G-spot Stimulation
If there’s one aspect in which sex is better with a strap on is for women interested in receiving targetted G-spot stimulation.
Real feel strap ons that have a curved shaft with a bulbous tip are usually better at aiming at the women’s sweet spot and delivering explosive orgasms.
Strap Ons To Live Out Fantasies
Another aspect in which strap on sex is better than sex with the real thing is that it makes it easier for people to live out their fantasies.
Even if it is just to try it on alone and discover how powerful it makes you feel and then introduce it to your sex session with your partner, it will help you enjoy better sex.
Positions for a Realistic Strap On
Okay, you’ve found your perfect realistic strap on and the best harness. Now what? Here are a few positions to really play around with your new toy. Whether to make it feel the most real, try some role play, or dip your toe into some power play.
Spiced-Up Missionary
Don’t discount missionary. Despite its vanilla stereotype, it’s incredibly helpful when using a strap on to be able to see your partner’s face and gauge their reaction. Place a pillow under the hips to tilt the pelvis up for a deeper thrust. For receivers with a clitoris, try the CAT method. The strapped on partner puts their chest on level with their partner’s shoulders and penetrates no more than halfway. Then, grind vertically for clitoral stimulation and penetration.
Blowjob
Sure, it may seem a little silly at first. But, it is an extremely potent power play to have one partner on their knees and the other with a hand on their head or in their hair. Especially with a hyper-realistic dildo. For the partner with the strap on, while physical sensation won’t occur, the tension will be electric.
Doggy Style
A classic, and usually the first recommended for anal pegging and power play. For that extra umph, have the strapped on partner place one leg up for increased thrusting ability. Or, change the location to standing with the receiver bent over, hands against the wall.
Seated Ride
With the strapped on partner sitting , have the receiver straddle and sink down. This is fantastic for both vaginal and anal play, and allows the receiver to control the pace. Make sure the the receiver is able to have either their feet or knees on a surface for riding leverage. To spice this up, sit on a bed with both partners leaning back, allowing the realistic strap on to be seen sinking in.
Reviewed by:
Kasia Halinowska